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Wednesday, August 2nd, 2006
3:33 am - Ayuda me :(

This is more a personal one:

Okay I'm bi or something like it...but recently I've been drifting more towards the opposite sex. Is this normal? I mean given these factors:

1) I've always been interested in girls more, but I tend to date/be around guys more

2) Even though this is happening, in my mind I'm still bisexual, but I feel as if its only a phase...and I don't know if I'm ready to deal with getting over a 12 year long phase lol.

3) Referring back to point to the Okay I'm bi or something like it... comment, I don't so much fancy myself gay or straight....or really either of the other...I don't really have a preference in the sense that I don't really prefer ANYONE...omitting factor one and two...should I even bother labeling myself?

It's been bothering me and perplexing me for the longest (like a couple of years) and I don't know what to do or think anymore. I mean its not like I'm desperate to label myself as anything, I just need to know in my head and in my heart where I am. Was it a phase? Am I just looking for something new? Or is bisexually really a transitional sexuallity for some people like so many people think of it as?

Feed back is MOST welcome :)


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Thursday, July 6th, 2006
9:43 pm - We'd appreciate your input!

Hi, I'm posting here because it is glbtq related and I feel strongly that your input can really make a difference. However, if it is not in alignment with the essence of this community, please feel free to release this post.

I want to introduce a brand-new homo/bi/t friendly community: happy_gay_life

This is a community dedicated to building a positive glbtq image by sharing joyful and constructive experiences of being glbtq.

Ever wonder why there are so few glbtq stories/movies with happy endings? I did.

I figure out that it has to come from us. We've got to count our blessings and share these lovely moments with each other: the special moments that bring smiles to our faces, that make our hearts sing, that tickle us, that move us to tears of joy ... on a daily basis.

Every time you share a line of joy, you're contributing to building a positive glbtq image and creating a better life for yourself.

Come! Join us and have some fun!

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Wednesday, May 17th, 2006
3:02 am


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Wednesday, January 18th, 2006
4:57 am - hi

hi everyone, this is my first post in this community. i joined because i was looking for communities and people to meet and talk with. i am a 20 y/o bi male, from NE PA, i just created this LJ so i can share and talk about think i wouldn't in my normal LJ. i am into both guys and girls equally, and am always looking to meet and chat with new people. feel free to talk to me or add me or reply or whatever anytime. well, bye

current mood: cheerful

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Thursday, November 17th, 2005
12:40 pm - Mad as shit...just need to vent...to like everyone lol

OMG!! I CAN'T BELIEEEEEEEVE THIS SHIT! Ok I'm just a bit bitter and hella irritated. Ok so here's the deal right....there's this guy.....me and guy were decent friends....then we started hanging out more...then me and dude made out (whoot) and ever since that day...dude has been somewhat stand-offish....and quite the asshole....and of course it just got worse and worse...and today I just had it.....so how many ladies are FAMILIAR with thei stroy EHH!!?? I mean c'mon!! I really hate guys anyway...like almost literally. But anywa the "plot line" of this little story is ofcourse not AT ALL that uncommon....doesn't 85% of the time happen like that anyway? But its just that when ya think ya may have found good people...they turn right around, laugh at ya, and piss in your face. It's ridiculous cause I so thought he was a relatively decent...and he's absolutely no different than any other dude. It makes me sick to think that I have a penis lol. I'm not really looking for advice or how to deal with the situation or w/ever...I've been here with EVERYONE it seems lol. I'm just venting about it so w/ever. Thanks for reading for those of you who gave a shit lol....I certainly don't anymore!



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Thursday, August 18th, 2005
10:30 pm

This may sound really stupid but I really need advice.

I'm not really sure if I'm bisexual. I'm guessing yes. I'm a girl and I am attracted to tons of guys, but the idea of being with a girl doesn't turn me off. In fact at times I like the idea. But normally when I look at a girl I don't say to myself "wow, shes hot!". I've only really looked at a girl and thought that once. I know people always say you'll just know if you are or not, but I'm really confused.

This is the first time I've ever gone public with this....

current mood: confused

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Thursday, August 11th, 2005
12:18 am - Question
confusedangel22 How do you guys deal if you like a girl, but she is straight? I go crazy, I always seem to want wat I can neva have. I'm kinda out numbered by straight girls, and I'm limited on bi or lesbian. Idk wat to do, or how to get ova her. Its drving me mad. Some advice would be appreciated, Thank you for your time.


current mood: confused

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Tuesday, August 9th, 2005
11:06 pm

hello :) My name's Kevin and I'm 19 years old, (now) 5'10", and multiracial. Just lookin for some folks to chat with or w/ever. Here's what I look like:

and I also have a myspace:


If you wanna add me then just comment on my latest post in my journal. On myspace, I accept people like Jesus lol.



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Tuesday, August 2nd, 2005
12:16 am - HI
confusedangel22 Hi I just joined. I am Angela, a 19 yr old college student and I'm bi. The biggest problem I have is my family. My dad is italian, and the biggest racist, sexist, bigot I have eva known. He hates anyone that isn't in his eyes "normal." And if you piss him off enough or do something he doesn't agree w/ the concequences can be bad. He had kicked my sista out of the house coz he didn't like her boyfriend, whom she actually married a few yrs after being kicked out. I can't tell him about my orientation coz he'll stop paying for my college education. My mom even said to me if I don't watch wat I say to him he'd stop paying. She doesn't know either. I come from a big family but news travels wicked fast. I have told 1 person in my family, but she is family by marriage, not blood. My sista-in-law, coz she had to fight to be accepted into da family. I hate being home coz I can't be myself. I'm on guard, I need to be careful of wat I say or do, so it doesn't sound "gay." Even though I'm bi, it wouldn't be acceptable, coz then there is the hope I will end up with a guy. I might, I might not, it depends on who I fall in love with. But I can't win coz my dad and brothers are wicked ova protected. If I where to bring a guy home, they'd give him the 3rd degree, and if I bring a girl home, it would be unacceptable. I just can't win. Just thought I'd introduce myself...

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Monday, July 18th, 2005
2:26 am - Hey Ladies and gents

Hey Ladies and Gents theres a new Group foor g/l/b's and people who dont frow upon us. If you would like to join click the link, http://www.livejournal.com/community/the_heart/ Member its new so if you want more people bring some but it should be a great guild. :)

current mood: awake

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Tuesday, July 12th, 2005
5:54 pm
frkcarlyle Im gonna go ahead and leave the community because Im not very active in it, and neither is anyone else. It's just the new members basically that keep the entries going. Its nothing personal. Im just in too many groups.

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Friday, July 8th, 2005
7:40 am - New Community
frkcarlyle A lot of the communities I am in don't seem to be very active, so I started my own simply_bi_les . I made it members/friends only and requests must be approved, but that's because I am hoping that it will be a more open community. Making it easier  for some to express there sexuality and issues. Right now I am a single member, but maybe you could check it out. When you are approved be sure to add any photos under a cut and please dont poste quizzes and such. Edit: The community has actually grown quite well for only a few days and is more active than I expected. If you request to join, please read the "Note To Future And Active Members" Thanks to those who have joined and so far stayed faithful. The community has really opened up and has had positive responces!

current mood: content

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12:44 am

Hey all, I made a new community. Check it out, i am the only memeber so far. so please join. Sorry,

Girls Wear Boxers

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Friday, July 1st, 2005
3:10 am - merry meet all

Hey all.... you all know im new her so well skip that whole thing. I'm Elexis from nj... just so u know jersey blows and just about all the eople here to.I'm an ok perspn, im mean im no f-in onder women but i get by.. Im bi(duh), but im some wat open with it. My whole high shool knows and all my friends, as for my family other then my bro & sis there all in the dark.. im planing on tlling them all soon i hate them not knowing cuz its like lieing to myelf abut who i am.. Thats a little about me hope to make some friends...

current mood: crazy

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Wednesday, June 22nd, 2005
1:52 am - New Member

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User Number: 5799378
Date Created:2005-01-17
Number of Posts: Bunches

Army Wife, 20 year old married bisexual female. Loves hugs, cuddles, kisses, candles and roses. Kitty is shy but loves easily. Enjoys doing for others, but can be very isolated. Also in love and obsessed with Katie Holmes, Bubbles and Butterflies
Strengths: Honest, loving, Open Minded, Friendly, Funny (Husband & Friends, without them she would be nothing)
Weaknesses: Loves And Attaches Easily, Girls, Katie Holmes, Insecurities, Ice Cream, Coffee, Is Easily Walked On, Has A Hard Time Saying No To People, Cravings To Kiss A Girl, talking to much or fast
Special Skills: Writing, Typing, Loving, Giving, Understanding, Friendship, SEX *He He*, Kissing, Cuddling, Hugging
Weapons: Nuh Uh
Serenity Prayer: God Grant Me The Serenity To Except The Things I Cannot Change, The Courage To Change The Things I Can, And The Wisdom To Know The Difference

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I just joined the group...lol...I found this the easiest way to do an intro/bio, I have more pictures on my info page. I'd love to make new friends and read your journal. My journal is on friends only so let me know if you want to be added. *Waves*
Don't know what else to say. "Hi?"

current mood: happy

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Tuesday, June 21st, 2005
4:50 pm - new

Hello my name is Viviana and I'm new
It's pretty hard to make friends who are into the same things as I am. I just moved to a new location about a month ago so it's been hard to start over.
I guess you can say I'm still in the closet about being BI only my cousin and sister know about it and have been supportive but in a family of Christians it gets pretty hard trying to express myself.
I hope to make friends and I have just started a new LJ


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Wednesday, June 15th, 2005
8:31 pm


 I'm not exactly sure how to introduce myself but I've already talked to a few of you anyway. I wasn't sure if I'd join or not because this community doesn't seem that active yet but everyone here seems so wonderful, I had to! =)
I guess this is the part where I explain about me (What joy) My name is Crystal.. my icon is a picture of me.. Kay is my nick name.. or was.. long , sorta sad story.
I'm actually engaged to the best girl ever, Angel <33
I'm a singer.. I'm supposed to be recording my CD right now but it hasnt happened yet because of different reasons but this summer it should deffinately get started. My friend Tiffany Tardif is also a singer, currently recording her second debut (the first ones mixes got stolen) her stage name is Angelle.. so if she becomes famous everyone can know that she was MY friend.. lol just kidding.
I love meeting new people.. I'm sort of really self-conscious, I'll never really think I'm good enough so I'm pre-apologizing if anyone ever compliments anything about me other than about my girlfriend and I argue it. I'm really insecure and it drags me down alot of the time, but I'm working on it and I mostly keep it to myself.. I won't waste peoples time complaining about the things I don't like.
Wow, this is a crappy introduction lol.. well I think I'm gonna post a few pictures of me and of my girlfriend Angel.. (She's completely gorgeous.)



piCtuReS <3Collapse )

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Monday, June 6th, 2005
3:02 pm - Hi peoples...

Hiya, I'm Marie and I'm new (Unless you didn't already know that...). I live in Pa, on the ohio border, and I like to act, read, write, and act (Yes I am aware I said that once before). Um... I don't have any pictures of myself, I don't like how I look so I never take pictures lol. I haven't told any of my friends, or my parents that I'm bisexual. I would love to tell them, honestly, and I know my mother would be alright with it, a little hesitant, but alright, though I'm not sure about my father, he's kind of... well... scared of gays/bisexual I think. I don't tell my friends because they make fun of people like me, and I really don't want to lose them. I'm currently in a play, The Three Little Pigs, and tonight I've got tryouts for two more. I'm a very dark person sometimes, but I usually don't show it. I love to listen to music, and I would love to learn how to play a guitar, but we don't have the money to get one right now. Um what else about me... I guess thats about it. If you want to chat or something, IM me at Playhousechik (Yeah, I'm kind of obsessed with acting...), or email me or something.


Have a nice day

current mood: tired

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Friday, June 3rd, 2005
8:56 pm - Hey I am new


Well Hi.... I live in maryland soon to be living in indiana... And i am extreamlly femme i love women to death... I have a boyfriend that is okay with my sexuality and I love him tons but there is a slight problem with that because i really would love to date a girl.... That is the fall out part for bisexuals i always thought because i mean we can date boys/girls whatever but when we settle down we always wonder what it would be like with the oppisite sex. That was just what I always thought. I am 17 anyways and I live by music it is my sun my earth and my stars... I love it. I enjoy alot and i am a plus size model... so here are some pics tell me what you think!!! please


current mood: indescribable

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Saturday, May 28th, 2005
7:58 pm
sweet_hrrt I hate the fact that I have to hide my "bisexual desires" from my boyfriend. He's a "Jesus Freak", youth pastor soon to be pastor... he's made it clear that if I was ok with being bi he couldn't marry me. I don't know what to do.

Oh btw... I'm new. Hi.

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